
Keeping Kids Safe: Stranger Danger
Preschoolers need to understand what a stranger is and how they should respond should someone they don't know approach them. Parents can prepare their child to be able to handle themselves in a situation by role playing.
Teaching "stranger danger" will help your child practice safety if he or she is ever approached by a stranger. Child safety involves more than telling your preschooler "Don't talk to strangers." You should also role play the rules for staying safe.
Books About Strangers
You can also read books about the subject of stranger danger to your
preschooler. Illustrations in the books will reinforce the book's
message, so be sure to share the pictures and check for understanding.
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Stranger Danger: The Reluctantly Written but Absolutely Necessary Book for Today's Boys and Girls - Patricia Stirnkorb, Journey Stone Creations, 2005, 32 pages hardcover
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The Berenstain Bears Learn About Strangers - Stan & Jan Berenstain, Random House Books for Young Readers, 1985, 32 pages paperback
Talk to Your Preschooler about Strangers
What is a stranger? A stranger is someone you do not know. A stranger can be someone that tries to be nice to you, but you still don't know who they are.
Should I go with a stranger? No. You should never go with a stranger. Besides strangers, you should never go with anyone, even if you know them (neighbor, cousin, friend, or relative) unless your parent or caregiver has said it's okay to go.
What if the stranger has a dog or cat? No.
What if the stranger needs help? No. A stranger should ask an adult for help (not a child that doesn't know them).
What if you think you know the person but you're not sure? If you're not sure, the person is still a stranger.
The 9 Simple Rules
1. Grownups who need help should ask another grownup (not a child).
2. You may talk to another person if I am with you and tell you it is okay. Otherwise, don't tell someone you don't know your name or where you live.
3. Stay while I can see you in public, especially in a park or a big store.
4. If we get separated in a store, ask a store clerk for help. Police officers or security guards can also help.
5. Do not leave with someone you don't know.
6. If a stranger gets too close, back away or run for assistance. You can yell "I don't know you" so others know you don't know them.
7. Do not take anything from a stranger, especially candy, an animal, money, or a ride in a vehicle.
8. If you feel scared, leave the area and find someone who will help you.
9. Know how and when to call 9-1-1. Trust the person who answers and answer the questions they ask. They will help you.
Information from Teaching Children about Stranger Danger, published by Healthy-Start.com, and Tips for Teaching Preschool Stranger Danger, written by LuAnn Schindler (Life123.com/parenting).
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